Category: Personal

after a long string of posts dedicated to wedding photography and other shoots, i’ve decided to post a blog or two to update everyone on what i’m up to personally, etc… you know, what’s been happening in the whirlwind that has been the past few weeks. :)

yesterday i took a day off editing. i had just finished nichole and kevin’s wedding and was about to start the con-way freight edits, so it’s nice to take a break in between large projects in order to refresh yourself. one can only spend so much time immersed in photoshop. that reminds me, a lot of people ask “what do you mean by ‘editing’?” editing simply means (in my business) color correcting, making little touches like blurring edges or making something black and white, fixing any blemishes requested by the client, etc. obviously a wedding is going to have more artistic touches than say, a banquet event, but most require some miniscule editing. some don’t. it just depends.

also – in other photography related rantings – i saw a post online the other day for a bride looking for a wedding photographer. she wanted the wedding photographer to take engagement shoots, bridal shoots, and shoot the 9 hour wedding for close to free because she didn’t want to pay “these insane prices professional photographers are asking.” she ranted for a while about how we shouldn’t charge anything because it doesn’t cost us anything to take pictures. really?

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my first digital SLR…aww, the memories. now part of an extensive equipment backup team, just one of the many expenses of a photographer.

now i understand that wedding photography is expensive, but not only are you paying for the photographer to be there and work all day at your wedding (which involves posing people, gathering groups together, creatively framing shots, organizing formal shots, contacting your other vendors to make sure we understand the wedding timeline as to not miss anything, etc.), but you are also paying for editing time, wear and tear on camera equipment, assistant fees, travel fees, website fees, advertising fees and other micellaneous expenses (DVDs, CDs, labels, shipping fees, telephone bills, etc.). and this is just for the business. :) since most photographers support themselves through photography as their full time job, they also have bills of their own to pay. i believe that some photographers do charge ridiculous prices, as do a lot of professionals in every career imaginable. however, i’d like to think that most of us charge reasonable rates for all of the issues and expenses listed above.

none of my clients have ever complained about expenses and i believe that most brides are reasonable people and understand where the money is going. however, i just wanted to bring up the subject just so people know where their money is truly going because weddings really are expensive and most people are on a budget. it is completely different to try and book an affordable photographer and to try and make a deal with them due to budgetary constraints. most photographers will gladly work with you to compromise and meet everyone’s needs. i just wanted to put a good word out there for the photographers and try to justify our prices a little bit. :) i stayed out of this whole online conversation but did follow it out of curiosity. in short, several other photographers replied to her post and some nasty words were exchanged to which she retorted how she is “the bride and can’t believe anyone would treat a bride like this. everyone needs to be nice to the bride no matter what.” now… i’m a photographer and a bride, and i am totally on the photographers’ side on this one. :) woah.

um, anyway. :) yesterday, on my day between editing projects, i decided to get stuff together for our own wedding instead of someone else’s for once :). unfortunately my friend sent me links to a couple conspiracy theory websites that had me occupied for several hours and i got little to nothing accomplished. but it did feel good to relax… if you can call becoming increasingly paranoid via conspiracy theory websites relaxing. we are getting married in an art gallery (artspace!) in downtown raleigh in october 2010. all of the vendors i’m working with so far have been wonderful and super helpful. i’m grateful that all of the people are so nice. i will eventually be posting a master list of who we are working with in order to help their local businesses and give you recommendations. we’re excited!

so today i uploaded the pictures from the con-way freight banquet and discovered some ones i took of dolfy and buckles that i had forgotten about. the boys are doing fine and have recently discovered balls of yarn from my old school knitting days.

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while dolfy played with yarn, buckles decided to show his unwaivering support for the team this past sunday. buckles shows his love, even when they lose:

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well, maybe he was a little upset…

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pittsburgh visit.

this past weekend and week has been a total whirlwind for us. we went home knowing we’d already be busy enough with my mom’s birthday and visiting my grandma in the hospital, but with added engagement news on top of that we got really exhausted really quick. lots of talking, lots of planning, lots of discussion. we didn’t get back to raleigh until late sunday night and have been rushing to catch up on all the business we missed while we were gone while simultataneously trying to recover. geoff has a cold and i’m exhausted, but we’re slowly catching up. i’ve been editing from last week’s shoots and preparing for the wedding i’m photographing this weekend in cary.

i uploaded some of the photos we took in pittsburgh this past week – all of which were taken at PNC park. we took my mom there for her birthday as neither of my parents had ever been to the new stadium. the pirates lost, of course, but going to that stadium is always so much fun – and it was fireworks night! plus the pittsburgh skyline never gets old.

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magic hour in the ‘burgh.

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the sister and me…cheesing it up at the game.

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seriously – who mows those lines so straight?

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there was a giant red moon that night that, when photographed properly, reminds me of a bad 80s music video.

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“even fireworks at pirates games dwarf most cities’ fourth of july.” – laura

p.s. go steelers!

ENGAGED.

after 2 long and grueling weeks of begrudgingly keeping my mouth shut, i can finally announce that my boyfriend (fiancee?) and i are engaged!!! :D

we got engaged two weeks ago (august 22nd) on top of hanging rock while we were on vacation for our anniversary. it was night, no one was up there but us, and it was beautiful! it couldn’t have been more perfect. we couldn’t tell anyone for two weeks because we were waiting to go home and tell our families in person before my sister and the world found out via facebook or some other non-personable way.

and i couldn’t wear my ring for 2 weeks while we waited to go home. :(

it is fantastic! geoff and i have been talking rings for a long time now and had some basic ideas, but beyond that i wanted geoff to put his own design into it. so he designed it from scratch and david i. helfer jewelry (in the clark building in pittsburgh) made it for him. geoff let me read the long string of e-mails between the two and all of the various forms and shapes the ring took while geoff was tweaking the design. it was pretty awesome to see how it transformed. i LOVE the ring and think geoff and ira, the jeweler, did a marvelous job. i couldn’t ask for a more awesome ring.

and from those who have seen it, i get the same questions every time… so i figure i might as well answer them in bulk (since a lot of my friends and family read this blog).

carolyn’s ring FAQ:

1. what is that?

it is a green diamond. diamonds turn different colors in nature when exposed to natural radiation. this is why “color” is one of the c’s when you’re looking at diamonds. the most common color is yellow, but they more uncommonly can turn blue, green, purple, red, and all shades in between. it is very rare to find diamonds that come out of the earth naturally colored, so they are naturally outrageously expensive (we’re talking 100k to 5mil per carat). obviously only j lo can afford that.

for the rest of us, they make them affordable by artificially radiating them. this just means that they take a handful of diamonds, manually expose them to radiation, and see what color they turn. this would be the natural color they would turn in nature, so yellow is still the most commonly found radiated diamond, with blue, purple, green, and red still being decently hard to find.

2. what are all those black stones?

black diamonds.

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ring2on top of the engagement champagne cork. :)

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there have been a lot of developments in the past 2+ weeks about our wedding – yes, we do have a date and a venue. and no, i’m not going to take my own wedding photographs. :) after 7 years of dating we’ve had a lot of ideas for a long time, so now it’s nice to see them finally coming true on paper. more details will be coming out within the next several weeks, but i will say that i am so excited about what we’ve planned so far, both sets of families are thrilled, and we couldn’t be more stoked for next october!